星期三, 二月 22, 2012

男生女生の相戀法則

1、如果你喜欢她,就告诉她吧,即使她拒绝,并不丢面子,因为在她的心里,会因为你的真情而感激你。

2、如果她喜欢你,要明确告诉她你的感情,喜欢就是喜欢,不喜欢就是不喜欢。千万不要怕伤害她而犹豫不决地。

3、女孩子有时的任性只是想向你撒撒娇,不用争辩,她没有怪你什么,傻笑一下,哄哄她,她会很感动地更加爱你。

4、女孩子向你发脾气,那是因为她爱你,把你当成最亲的,最贴心的,最有安全感的人,千万不要和她发脾气。静静地等着,等她消气后后悔地去抱你。

5、她为你准备的东西,满不在乎地递给你,你千万不要也满不在乎,因为她其实准备得很用心很细。

6、不用总承诺要给她多好的生活,因为她爱你就会相信你,承诺一次,她就永远不会忘记,她看得见你的努力。

7、她对你冷漠漠的,不要认为莫名其妙,是不是最近疏忽了,有多少个小时没有和她联系?

8、永远不要嫌烦不说“我爱你”。即使你一个小时打电话说一次,她也会甜甜地“责怪”你。

9、她为你掉眼泪了,不要道歉,不要安慰,紧紧地抱住她,告诉她你在,就可以。千万不要自责地离去,因为她这时最需要你。

10、要信任她,她爱你,就什么都不会骗你!

11、如果真的很喜欢一个女生,就不要让她等你太久,尽早告诉她.就算你感觉她可能不喜欢你,她也有可能因为矜持或者怕被拒绝而受伤害。

12、她要是病了,带她去医院,她害怕时,找个人少的地方抱着她,给她勇气,帮她排队,挂号,放下你那点可悲的面子,周围人只会向她投来羡慕的眼光,不会对你说三道四。

13、牵手时,即使你的手有多汗,也别放开,因为那也是一份安全感。

爱、
需要过程 更需要彼此用身心去呵护

爱、
不需要海誓山盟 但需要彼此用真心去品味

爱、
不需要甜言蜜语 但需要真心去对待

獻給暗戀的熱戀的失戀的你

1、一個人總要走陌生的路,看陌生的風景,聽陌生的歌,然後在某個不經意的瞬間,你會發現,原本是費盡心機想要忘記的事情真的就那麼忘記了。

  2、幸福,不是長生不老,不是大魚大肉,不是權傾朝野。幸福是每一個微小的生活願望達成。當你想吃的時候有得吃,想被愛的時候有人來愛你。

  3、愛情是燈,友情是影子,當燈滅了,你會發現你的周圍都是影子。朋友,是在最後可以給你力量的人。

  4、我愛你不是因為你是誰,而是………
我在你面前可以是誰。

  5、愛情,要麼讓人成熟,要麼讓人墮落。

  6、舉得起放得下的叫舉重,舉得起放不下的叫負重。可惜,大多數人的愛情,都是負重的。

  7、我們每個人都生活在各自的過去中,人們會用一分鐘的時間去認識一個人,用一小時的時間去喜歡一個人,再用一天的時間去愛上一個人,到最後呢,卻要用一輩子的時間去忘記一個人。

  8、一個人一生可以愛上很多的人,等你獲得真正屬於你的幸福之後,你就會明白一起的傷痛其實是一種財富,它讓你學會更好地去把握和珍惜你愛的人。

  9、年輕的時候會想要談很多次戀愛,但是隨著年齡的增長,終於領悟到愛一個人,就算用一輩子的時間,還是會嫌不夠。慢慢地去了解這個人,體諒這個人,直到愛上為止,是需要有非常寬大的胸襟才行。

  10、當明天變成了今天成為了昨天,最後成為記憶裡不再重要的某一天,我們突然發現自己在不知不覺中已被時間推著向前走,這不是靜止火車裡,與相鄰列車交錯時,仿佛自己在前進的錯覺,而是我們真實的在成長,在這件事裡成了另一個自己。

  11、離開我就別安慰我,要知道每一次縫補也會遭遇穿刺的痛。

  12、曾經擁有的,不要忘記。不能得到的,更要珍惜。屬於自己的,不要放棄。已經失去的,留作回憶。

  13、我喜歡並習慣了對變化的東西保持著距離,這樣才會知道什麼是最不會被時間拋棄的准則。比如愛一個人,充滿變數,我於是後退一步,靜靜的看著,直到看見真誠的感情。

  14、男人的愛是俯視而生,而女人的愛是仰視而生。如果愛情像座山,那麼男人越往上走可以俯視的女人就越多,而女人越往上走可以仰視的男人就越少。

  15、好的愛情是你通過一個人看到整個世界,壞的愛情是你為了一個人舍棄世界。

  16、在自己面前,應該一直留有一個地方,獨自留在那裡。然後去愛。不知道是什麼,不知道是誰,不知道如何去愛,也不知道可以愛多久。只是等待一次愛情,也許永遠都沒有人。可是,這種等待,就是愛情本身。

  17、有誰不曾為那暗戀而痛苦?我們總以為那份痴情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。有一天,暮然回首,我們才發現,它一直都是很輕,很輕的。我們以為愛的很深,很深,來日歲月,會讓你知道,它不過很淺,很淺。最深和最重的愛,必須和時日一起成長。

  18、在這個世界上,只有真正快樂的男人,才能帶給女人真正的快樂。

  19、女人如果不性感,就要感性;如果沒有感性,就要理性;如果沒有理性,就要有自知之明;如果連這個都沒有了,她只有不幸。

  20、一段不被接受的愛情,需要的不是傷心,而是時間,一段可以用來遺忘的時間。一顆被深深傷了的心,需要的不是同情,而是明白。

  22、我知道這世上有人在等我,但我不知道我在等誰,為了這個,我每天都非常快樂。

  23、一生至少該有一次,為了某個人而忘了自己,不求有結果,不求同行,不求曾經擁有,甚至不求你愛我。只求在我最美的年華裡,遇到你。

  24、我不覺得人的心智成熟是越來越寬容涵蓋,什麼都可以接受。相反,我覺得那應該是一個逐漸剔除的過程,知道自己最重要的是什麼,知道不重要的東西是什麼。而後,做一個純簡的人。

  25、當你的心真的在痛,眼淚快要流下來的時候,那就趕快抬頭看看,這片曾經屬於我們的天空;當天依舊是那麼的廣闊,雲依舊那麼的瀟灑,那就不應該哭,因為我的離去,並沒有帶走你的世界。

星期五, 二月 17, 2012

Marriage or not you sould see it~!!

“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed -dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son—- I’m a loving husband….

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.

So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

If you don’t share this, nothing will happen to you.

If you do, you just might save a marriage. Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up

星期四, 二月 16, 2012

你去了哪里?

怎么你就是没有 update 你的 blog??
你去了哪里?:(

星期三, 二月 15, 2012

情人节





情人节的前一天,
我们上云顶庆祝,
是我们的第一个情人节
我很开心他很重视

他送了我三份礼物,
都有意思,证明我们在一起三个月啦~
哈哈哈~
他还记得嘛!

第一份就是锁匙圈,
第二份就是 bear bear 的花,
第三份就是 我最爱的化妆品,
哈哈哈~我都很喜欢!

我从来没正式的庆祝过情人节,
这次我真的体会到情人节的气氛,
我真的很开心!
谢谢你!:D

星期四, 二月 09, 2012

三个月

今天是我们在一起三个月的日子~
可能对某些人来说,微不足道~
只不过是三个月的恋情嘛!
可是对于我们这段恋情真的很珍贵!
刚在一起就会遇见很多很多的问题!
我刚开始还寓言说,我们这段恋情嘛!我看三个月就分!
很庆幸!我们没有!

可是,
今天你送我回家的时候,
我们只说了一句话:“东西漏了,要回去?”
“不用!”我答。
就只是酱子kuchai 到 kepong 没啦!
这就是我们怎样庆祝我们的三个月恋情!哈哈~谢天谢地!

情人节就快到了!
我不知道,他会怎么帮我庆祝,
我也不知道,我是否能够开开心心的与他度过?
是否我会有个难忘的情人节呢?

星期四, 二月 02, 2012

Tips for How to Makeup Last All Day

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Tips for How to Makeup Last All Day
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♥ 1♥ Start with a perfectly clean face. Never apply fresh makeup over yesterday’s leftovers. You should have washed. your face the night before, so all you have to do is use a toner to remove any oils that may have been created overnight.


♥ 2 ♥ Use the right moisturizer. Choose a moisturizer that is right for your skin type (e.g., normal, oily, combination). Don’t forget to always use a moisturizer with an SPF of 15 or greater—protecting your face from sun exposure is super important for maintaining your beauty and reducing the aging and damaging effects of sun exposure.


♥ 3 ♥ Use makeup primers to help smooth skin. Primers help to fill in small lines and wrinkles and make the skin ready to have makeup applied. Primers can help to even out skin tone, minimize redness and help to conceal under eye bags and puffiness.


♥ 4 ♥ Apply foundation evenly. Choose a good foundation product, again, one that is appropriate for your skin type. Apply evenly, using a sponge rather than your fingers. Try mineral based products for best results.


♥ 5 ♥ Use powder. After applying foundation, use a translucent powder to “set” the foundation and help prevent it from breaking down due to skin oils. Apply the powder to your eyelids as well, to control the oils that will be created in the eyelid area which will prevent creasing of the eye makeup as the day wears on.


♥ 6 ♥ Avoid touching your face. Resist the urge to rub your eyes or touch your face during the day. Not only are you likely to smear or smudge your makeup, but the oils and dirt from your hands will cause the makeup to not last as long.


♥ 7 ♥ Touch up as needed. A quick lunchtime touch up with a powder compact and disposable blotting papers can help to absorb the oils that your skin has created in the T-Zone (forehead, nose and chin), and give you a fresh clean look that will last for the rest of the day. Lightly apply another layer of translucent powder by dabbing, not rubbing. Also, take a quick moment to reapply your lipstick, and you are ready to go!

星期三, 二月 01, 2012

习惯了~

告诉我自己,不见你一个礼拜不是问题!
如果我达成,我要不见你,两个礼拜!再来三个礼拜,再来一个月,到最后。。。永远。。。。

星期一, 一月 30, 2012

还是会偶尔的想念你~

还是会偶尔的想念你~
看看你的部落格~
一切都过了~

你还是把心回到你重来喜欢的那个女孩子身上~
你们谈天谈得很密~
我祝福你~
我希望你和她会过得幸福快乐~
我是时候把你忘得一干二净了~

可是。。。我不想。。。:(

星期日, 一月 08, 2012

真正心疼你的男人是这样的~~♥

1.心疼你的男人是这样的:平时嘲笑你没胸没屁股,指着洋mm说:瞧瞧人家,那才叫长得够味。等你真的很认真的对他说:很多人都去隆胸,你也想去的时候。他会很生气地说:别傻,现在这样多好啊.
2.心疼你的男人是这样的:吃饭的时候,把最好的都摆在你面前,看你狼吞虎咽的吃,先是很欣慰的笑笑,然后再生气的说:慢点慢点,没人跟你抢。然后再很生气的说:你太自私了,什么都是挑最好的先吃。再最后,还是把最好的都夹到你碗里。
3.心疼你的男人是这样的:无论你做什么东西,他都说好
吃。偶尔说一次:这个太咸了。尽管如此还是都吃掉了。
直到有一次家里来客人,你做了一大桌的东西,客人说:你是不是平时很少做饭啊?你终于明白:其实你做的东
西并不好吃。
4.心疼你的男人是这样的:每次都跟你说,我们上馆子吃
吧,自己做太累。你说:太贵,用这个钱可以
买大虾自己做着吃。他会很高兴的说:还是我老
婆最贤惠。
5.心疼你的男人是这样的:你每次去接他,从来都是迟到,他很生气,说你不重视他,才会迟到。把你先骂一顿,然后再打开包包,满包包全是给你买的东西。
6.心疼你的男人是这样的:催你早点睡,早点起。你跟他说:早上早点叫我起来。早上你却偏偏要赖床,他叫
了几次你都不起,最后起来晚了,你还要怪他没好好叫你。他很无辜,说:我看你睡得那么香,不忍心叫你。
7.心疼你的男人是这样的:总是把别的女人鄙一顿,张三太丑,李四太笨,王五太傻……...只有我老婆最好,其实他这么做只是为了哄你开心而已。她们并没有他所鄙视的那么糟。这是等你真正懂事的时候才明白的道理。
8.心疼你的男人是这样的:你一遇到困难,就想到他,并且总能从他那找到解决困难的答案。当你没困难的时候就总也想不到他,他却不怪你。
9.心疼你的男人是这样的:给你钱花,你却说他把你宠坏
了,失去了艰苦奋斗的决心。不给你钱花,为了让你树立
艰苦奋斗的决心的时候,你却说他对你不够好,自己
吃山珍海味,却让她受苦。
10.心疼你的男人是这样的:心里惦记着你,想来看你,
你却说你很忙。为你着想,不来看你的时
候,你又说他抛下你一个人不管,自己去逍遥。
11.心疼你的男人是这样的:真的真的很爱你,可你却从
来都觉得是应该的。直到有一天,当你看看周围
的世界的时候。在不停叹息世界的黑暗,世
人的可怜的时候,女人的不幸,男人的不仁的时候,才突然发现自己原来是如此的幸福,一直生活在真空中,没有看见世界的疾苦和黑暗。
逐渐学会长大,逐渐收敛狂野,逐渐放弃叛逆,逐渐回顾自己,才发现为何你是如此幸运,却从来没有觉察到。对真正爱你的男人,你拿什么来偿还。没有了,这辈子都无
法偿还清。
真的,你开始慢慢懂得这是上辈子的德和下辈子的债。幸福是很容易迷路的,所以千万别以为它会站在原地等你。
一转身,也许就此错过,结局往往是后悔终身..